How to talk to your doc about sex & meds
Hey everyone! So, I’ve been on some new meds lately, and I’ve noticed… well, let’s just say things aren’t quite the same in the bedroom. I know it’s a bit awkward to bring up, but I really want to talk to my doctor about it. Anyone else been in this situation? How did you start the convo? Did you just blurt it out, or was there a smoother way?
I feel like I should’ve prepared better-maybe even written down my concerns beforehand? But then again, I don’t want to overthink it and make it weird. Maybe I’ll just say something like, ‘Hey doc, I’ve been on this med for a while, and I’ve noticed some changes in my… uh, intimacy. Is that normal?’
Anyway, I’d love to hear your tips or experiences. How do you bring up sensitive topics like this with your doctor? And if you’ve had success (or even a hilarious fail), spill the tea! What’s the best way to keep it casual but still get the answers you need?
I totally get how awkward it can feel to bring this up-like your cheeks are on fire just thinking about it. but trust me, your doctor has heard it all before, and they’re there to help. A few years ago, I was on a new antidepressant, and suddenly, my libido had vanished. I sat in the waiting room, heart pounding, rehearsing lines in my head. When I finally blurted out, 'Doc, I think my meds are messing with my sex life,' she just nodded and said, 'Tell me more.' Turns out, she adjusted the dose, and things improved. The key? Be direct but honest. You don’t need a script-just say what’s on your mind. And if you’re nervous, write it down beforehand. It’s worth it to feel like you again.