Quote from Lily Chen on February 19, 2026, 7:18 pm

okay, so i know this is heavy but let’s talk about it-because honestly, who else feels like grief is just this weird, messy, unpredictable thing? like one minute you’re fine, the next you’re crying over a baby commercial, and then you’re laughing at a dumb meme like nothing happened. pregnancy loss is such a weird, lonely experience, and i feel like no one really talks about the random, small ways it sneaks up on you. like, do you have a go-to comfort snack? or a playlist that somehow makes it all feel a little less heavy? or maybe you just scream into a pillow sometimes (no judgment here). i’d love to hear how you all cope-because honestly, we’re all just figuring this out together, right?